Let me be…

Let me colour my world,
Let me draw outside the lines.
For I have never been very good,
staying inside of the box.

Let my hair be tangled,
But my spirit remain free.
For even in my fierceness,
Let me be compassionate.

Let me be a little uncertain.
Let me be a bit irrational.
For in all the chaos of my mind,
Let me find my voice.

Let me embark on new adventures,
And love with total abandon.
Let me understand that surrender is the only door,
Through which my soul will find its way home.

 -M 

 

Happy Woman’s day to all the lovely ladies, and a big shout out to all the men, who were raised right by strong women. 

 

#womansday2020

 

A savage and a sweetheart

She is an old soul
Following todays style,
Speaking her mind
And yet touching lives.

Fiercely independent
Following her heart,
Her coffee and her clothes
Preferred Black.

Protective and nurturing
Passionate and loving
Forever aspiring,
Never settling.

A free spirit
She is both
A savage and a sweetheart.

-M

She is an Alpha woman

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You will spot her from a mile away.  She holds her head a little higher and she has a certain air about her when she walks. Making her own way in the world, she knows how to get what she wants……Yup SHE is an Alpha Woman.

So, why is it that most men are scared shit of an alpha female?

Well, I guess men don’t like to be challenged, especially by women. I hate to say this, but in most cases this is true.  So, when women challenge them, men feel uncomfortable and intimidated with the idea that a woman might be better than them and because they are afraid they might lose their ‘macho-provider’ attitude.

Some men rely on good looks and a few pick-up lines to impress a woman. BUT, Alpha women don’t fall for that kind of crap. They need much more from a man to be impressed (if they are to be impressed at all). They want brains, looks, humor…They want the whole package—because they themselves are the whole package.  Too many people think that an alpha woman is just a dominating bitch with no softness to her, but that’s not true at all. Her soft side is as powerful as her hustle.

Let’s not beat around the bush and face the facts here. It takes a very strong and secure man to date an Alpha woman.

And if you land yourself an alpha female, it’s pretty normal that the more you get to know her, the more she will scare the hell out of you, because of how fearless and outspoken she is.

She says and does things with great intensity, and it can be a lot all at once if you’re used to women who are more doting and submissive.

She’s as fierce with her words as she is with her heart and if she falls for a man, she falls deeply. There’s no in between with an alpha female. She works hard, plays hard, and loves harder.

An alpha woman isn’t one to sit back and let life come to her — she goes out and makes stuff happen for herself. She’s not a lazy partner and makes sure life is organized and stress-free. She genuinely enjoys responsibility. Alpha women seek partners who are motivated and want to build empires with the men they choose to spend their lives with. SHE’LL PUSH YOU TO BECOME BETTER.

She’s not the type that’ll let herself go because her personality type simply won’t allow it. She takes care of her health, her finances and her emotional well-being no matter what disaster might be thrown her way. She’ll do whatever she needs to feel good about herself because feeling amazing allows her to bring her best and happiest self to the relationship.

She might come across as too much to handle or as a woman who doesn’t need anyone, but if she chooses to date you, remember she chose you too.

Dating her is a pretty amazing experience if you can look past the initial intimidating traits she possesses because those traits are actually what make dating her one of the best experiences you’ll ever have.

If you’re brave enough fully submerge yourself in the relationship, you’ll wonder why you hadn’t dated an amazing alpha female sooner.

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-M

 

 

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